Happy New Year

2013 year has been a splendid year for all of us. If (some of you) are thinking otherwise about 2013 and feel that it was quite a tough year, then think again!

Every year (with time) brings new hope, brings new experiences, brings new confidence, brings new positive expectations, brings new aspirations and all these lead to new learnings, new lessons of life, humanity and happiness.

Tough time, mournful days and soreness are just imaginary words which doesn’t exists. These all are, I believe (I may be wrong) is state of mind. When we face tough times, it actually give us a chance to learn. It gives us chance to sharpen our mental knives. These situations make us tougher and we must learn from these conditions rather than blaming our time, current year or luck.

We all have learned a lot in these earlier flourishing years and will enjoy its returns till our death-bed. Every year teaches us something new and brings new challenges which makes us smarter, wiser and intellectual.

Year 2013 brought smiles on our lips, rejuvenated us, built new as well as strengthen relationships. We met old friends, erased our grudges with those who hurt us in the past, inspired many and got inspired, did mistakes and learned from those mistakes. In the midst of this topsy-turvy ride we never forgot to smile and never lost courage. We bounced back with a bang and achieved acme.

Today on the last day of this incredible 2013, I am personally grateful for all your tremendous support, precious guidance and life changing tips which made my year. We are entering into 2014 with beautiful treasured memories which will water our soul throughout our life.

I wish you a very beautiful, rewarding new year filled with positive thoughts, abundance, joy, and treasured moments.

May 2014 be your best year yet!

Please take care of yourself as you are apple of someone’s eyes.

Keep Smiling… 🙂

Happy New Year, 2013 is Ours

Today may be the last day of this fabulous year.

Today may be the last moments of this incredible year.

Today may be the last learning experience of 2012.

But tomorrow will be a new beginning.

A new beginning of Life. A new beginning of Love. Tomorrow’s first Sun rays will bring a new ray of Hope. A hope which will transform into Reality, a reality of my dreams. My imagination will prosper. My New Years Resolution will blossom just like a seed gets sprouted in a new sunlight.

Coming year – 2013 will be a special year for all of us, our society and loved ones. All our plans and resolution will get fulfilled and we will be the most happiest person on this planet.

We will make ourselves a better Personality and a good Human being by improving…

  • Drink plenty of Water
  • Eat Breakfast like a King, Lunch like a Prince and Dinner like a Beggar
  • Live with 3 Es: Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy
  • Make time to Pray
  • Hangout with Friends and Loved ones
  • Read more books than we did in previous year
  • Spend time for Myself
  • Exercise Daily
  • Will never take our-self Seriously
  • Will never waste our energy and time after Gossips
  • Will Dream in the day
  • Will forgive all those who hurt me
  • Will spread Love and Smile
  • Will always have a good Attitude
  • Will make Peace
  • Will spread Happiness and never ruin my Present
  • Will always avoid Arguments
  • We will call our Family often
  • We will always give beautiful surprise to our loved ones
  • We shall never use harsh words
  • We will Respect our Elders
  • We will Smile to our neighbors
  • Do the right thing
  • We will learn from our pasts
  • God heals everything
  • We will never get panic and worried as these are just temporary
  • We will always be Calm and Happy in all the Situations

“We will open the book.  Its pages are blank.  We are going to put words on them ourselves.  The book is called Opportunity and its first chapter is New Year’s Day.”

– Edith Lovejoy Pierce

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Keep Smiling… 🙂



What’s your New Years Resolution?

I asked my friend, Kruti Kapadia, “What is your new year’s resolution?”  Her eyes popped out and her eye balls started revolving like earth revolving around its own axis.  She looked at me, thought for a while and before she could utter anything, I asked her a second question, “Do you have any resolutions for 2013?”

New_Year's_ResolutionsShe responded enthusiastically, “Yes, I do! I want to be happy and I want to do whatever is necessary for my family, society and myself to have ample satisfaction and happiness.”

She paused for a while and then her lips dropped into sadness and continued, “Aviral, for the last 3 years I have been making the same resolution and it always fades away”.

I asked the same question to my brother, Darpan Kulshreshtha from New Delhi.  Without a second thought he replied quickly, “Happiness is my resolution.”

I’ll bet that if you ask anyone about their New Year’s resolution, you will hear the same replies as above along with other desires and needs.

ResolutionsWe are humans and materialistic things make us happy. On the other hand, we always pretend to be happy but unfortunately through our entire life we simply keep on pretending and never actually make it a priority.

Now, the question isn’t what makes us happy or what we should do to be happy. The question is how do we achieve happiness?

“Happiness is like a butterfly, the more you run after it the farther it goes away from you.”

Happiness is not a materialistic body which you can buy from a store. It is like knowledge, the more you give the more you get.I have coined it Internal Satisfaction. Make giving our habit rather than expecting surprises from our loved ones or family.

happiness is my resolutionLet me ask you a few questions….

  • When was the last time you gave astounding surprise to your loved ones?
  • When have you made them laugh when they were sad, alone or needed your support?
  • When did you last motivate your friends?
  • When did you last praise your colleagues and subordinates?

If your answer is positive for the above questions then my dear friend you are one of the happiest people in the world.  You have achieved tremendous respect and love from society.

Happiness is all about giving and not expecting in return like a squirrel that always searches for ground nuts and hides them beneath the earth and forgets.We call it the joy of giving.

Whether your resolution is to grow in your career, grow in your love life or any other lovely thing which soothes our heart, we must always accept it with a smile and happiness.  To achieve our goals we must not violate anyone else’s feelings. It has to be achieved without ego and hatred. We have to be unselfish.

“Happiness can never be achieved by making someone unhappy.”

In this beautiful world we have materialistic goals which without any doubt should be achieved lovingly and making society happy and also making those around us smile.

“Wrap your goals with happiness.”

So let’s together make one resolution for this next gorgeous year – 2013.

“We will lend our hands to those who need us, make them smile and spread essence of positivity. Next year is going to be ours and we together will make a difference and make our world more beautiful and stress free.”

Keep Smiling…. 🙂



Edited and forwarded by Mr. Jeff Botch