Tough time makes you Strong

It was a summer noon and classroom was jam packed. Teacher was busy in showing the exam papers. She was calling the names of every student one by one and the student had to stand-up and she would speak the marks. Few students passed in her exam and few students (like me) failed.

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“Aviral”, she called my name irritatingly. As soon I stood up, she stared at me suspiciously like I just murdered someone.

She shouted, “Aviral you are failed.” She repeated this sentence twice. It dint pinch me when she spoke these words angrily. “Aviral, you simply can’t pass this academic year. You never concentrate in class.”

I dint utter a single word. She continued aiming relentless words at me. “Aviral, you are nothing and you are a GONE CASE… A GONE CASE (She repeated deliberately). You cannot do anything in life.”

This time it pinched me. I felt like someone has brutally stabbed knife in my heart. I broke down. I was shattered into pieces.

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Source: http://www.simplystacie.net/2011/12/quotes-for-tough-times/

This is just one example. I have been criticised a lot in my whole life especially in my teenage days. Those days I used to ask myself, Why me? Like all kids, I was too a soft hearted and emotionally weak. I wouldn’t be lying if I say that thousands of times I found myself crying.

Was I really a weak person?

Yes I was and believe me I have cursed myself several times when I was immaturely young.

As the time passed by, fog of negativity in front of my eyes started lifting and things got much clearer. Things started becoming transparent from translucent.

Unfortunately, I was wrong. I was lucky and a blessed child as I faced such situations in my early ages. Had I not faced these tough conditions, I would have never learned from life and critics.

It made me stronger, strong like a rock. It made me mentally tough and a matured person. It taught me how to react in such conditions and especially how not to get outburst. I learned from my life and learned from others’ lives as well.

“We must accept finite disappointment but never lose infinite hope.”

– Martin Luthar King Jr.

We should never get upset or lose our confidence and faith from the tough times and especially from tough-to-handle people. They are temporary. It makes us strong not physically but most importantly mentally. We must learn to control our mind and heart. As I believe, emotions and sentiments are most important part and it must be kept preserved only for our loved ones.

I am still learning from my day to day life and now am very confident in handling such situations. I am thankful to god who made me strong at a very right time.

Just to Epitomise:

Never get disheartened or get panic from tough conditions and egoistic people. They teach us in a long learn. Always wear smile on your face no matter what problems you face. Think and be patient and act smartly.

Keep Smiling…. 🙂

Thanks,

Aviral

Life isnt a straight line

Life gives you a lot. It gives you million reasons to smile. It makes you laugh, sigh, angry and sometimes, makes you cry. It teaches you at every bit of minute.

Sometimes it gives you a punch on your face and stupefies you and in next moments it life teachesmedicates you.

Every day we learn something. Life has a meaning, which provides something to us, something relevant which directly affects us and our society.

Here, the main question isn’t what life teaches us, but the main question is what we learn from life. How we make it large and influencing.

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Above figures are life graphs as they reflect the pattern of life.

Graph at your left resembles stock market chart which has lots of ups and downs. As you can see there are 7 days in a week on the X-axis and these days are never same emotionally nor physically.

Monday you may be suffering from “Monday-Phobia” after having an enjoyable and pleasant weekend. Tuesday you may get indulged in the work and then you start flowing with the flow till Friday. The sixth day brings smiles and happiness on your faces. Weekends are always great fun, aren’t they?

Seven days are not same and it should not be same. It indicates there are lots of happenings in our life no matter a positive one or a negative.

Positive one gives confidence, internal satisfaction and happiness. While negative ones give us a learning experience. We must not get demoralized from these negative kicks. I don’t call them failures. Failures are learning lessons of life.

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When you do not understand what exactly you want to do in your life, when you have no ideas about your goals and you have no sketch plan to achieve them or you simply are confused with your life then you see your life like a straight line graph.

A life without a goal is like a necklace without a diamond. A plain life starts and it injects pain, leave us frustrated. Life becomes lifeless just like stagnant water in a pond.

If your life is moving ahead just like a straight line, then my dear friend you are moving in the wrong direction and will surely land in trouble and cursing your luck.

“Big ships always sail against the wind and tides in the unpredictable oceans while boats floats in the lakes.

I still remember incredible words from Steve Jobs, “Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle.

Yesterday, someone told me, “Aviral why you want to start a business? You are doing well enough and the better part is you are living your life without tensions. Starting a business is full of tensions, headaches and it has many challenges to crack.”

Is life without a challenge a life? I don’t think so, do you?

Don’t get settled. A life without challenges will leave you paralyzed. Keep looking what you love to do and start it once you find it passionate.

Don’t waste time after thinking. Plan it. Jot down the points, take necessary actions and make it happen. We are not here to talk about other’s successes.

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than
by the ones you did do.  So throw off the bowlines.  Sail away from the safe harbor.  Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” 

– Mark Twain

Keep Smiling… 🙂

Thanks,

Aviral

 

Smile is the fuel of Productivity

Remember to SmileJust now I received one tweet from Dale Carnegie India on my smart phone. It says… “_______ is the Fuel of productivity.”

If you ask me what could be the best word for above question then that has to ‘SMILE’.

“Smile is the fuel of Productivity.”

Smile is Fuel of Productivity

What is your fuel of Productivity?

You can get thousands of answers of it. I believe whatever makes us happy and energize us, makes our work and day more productive. We find ourselves more energetic and in best mood when we are feeling happy from bottom of our heart.

“A single second can boost your day with confidence.”

Have you ever observed and tried to trace down your productive hour? Yes you heard right. Productive hour. We all have our own productive hours when we actually can do our tasks productively with highest concentration and with great accuracy.

Mine is in the morning and especially when I listen influencing music. Because I feel rejuvenated, I feel energetic and fresh from my heart. It not helps me to rejuvenate but brings a smile on my face, a smile of confidence.

Furthermore, we get best of the ideas in this moment of time which can be a stepping stone in our businesses and society. It could be while having a morning coffee or when we are spending time alone or while reading a book. Sometimes we get ecstatic ideas when we listen to energetic and influencing music or when we indulge in conversation with our mentors.

There are thousands of reasons which make our day productive, but the bottom line is it leaves a smile on our face and influences our day. It gives us an intense satisfaction. It not only rejuvenate our moment but also freshen up our mind which reflects on our lips and directly reflects in our relationships and work.

So, always trace your productive hour and convert it into a gratifying day and make your life incredible.

Keep Smiling… 🙂

Thanks,

Aviral

Dont Let Your Smile Extinct..

Everytime you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.” 

– Mother Teresa

Today we are moving with pace in our super chaotic life. We are over burdened with our professional lives, responsibilities and our life is swinging between home to workplace and workplace to home, just like a pendulum. And in such fast life, our life has actually slowed down which reflects on our face.

A Smiling Face! I am scared of its extinction.

Smile, Smile and Smile. It is the most priceless gift we human beings have, which will change our lives for sure.

Always Smile to your Critics especially when they are criticising you.

Your Smiling face will actually make them feel a Loser.

Smiling face is inversely proportional to Critic’s happiness.

Never get excited by their dirty tricks. As they want you to get excited and react. They always try to provoke you. Never ever do. Simply Smile, Listen to them and filter out all irrelevant and redundant words and leave their place and forget.

You will land in an extreme satisfaction as your heart is pure like water.

Smile is the best medicine. It not only refreshes us but also helps us to gain our lost momentum.

I never get excited or frustrated in bottle tight situations. Rather I keep my mind calm and listen to energetic songs (If I can) and try to solve the problems. Yes, I always laugh and smile on such incidences. The best way to overcome negative instances is close your eyes and think about your humorous and sweet incidents which you spent with your family and friends. Or watch comic videos.

Believe me, you will feel energetic and observe a sweet smile on your face which will give you confidence. And till this you would have left that negative effect far behind.

It gives us positive energy and makes our mind fresh which gives us strength to think effectively and spontaneously. And Results are Crystal Clear.

So always wear beautiful smile and face the world. Keep Smiling…. 🙂

Thanks,

Aviral