One beautiful morning, I along with my two friends, went to our society garden for a walk. It was a beautiful morning with sun smiling above us, birds were singing the morning rhyme, and dank green grasses beneath welcomed us. We could feel the chilly breeze on our face. It was serene and tranquil dawn in which we felt like three butterflies enjoying the essence of flowers.
As we broke into conversation, one of my friend started blaming his luck, his life, his society, his family and his past. He started throwing negative vibrations and soon we could see his outburst.
Believe me, we left that place within fifteen minutes. My day came to an end before even it had started.
Before you read further, let me ask you couple of questions.
“Do you carry your past together?”
“Do you (sometime) remember those horrifying moments which drain your energy out of your soul?”
If you nod affirmatively to the above asked questions then you are drifting a bit from your positive path and if not rectified soon, it will going to take your life downwards sooner or later.
We all are human beings and we take our previous memories together. It’s a human tendency. The question isn’t about remembering mistakes or criticisms which we did or received in our earlier lives, but the question is taking those hair-raising time along with our lives and more importantly allowing those memories to ruin our present and future. These are like slow poison which kill you gently.
It’s like entering in a dark tunnel where you see nothing. Complete darkness. Complete black out. No light, still we move further with hope and faith on our little baby steps. Time may be daunting but with brave heart we move towards the search of light, towards a ray of hope. We come across some difficulties, we stumble in between still we never stop. We keep moving in search of that hopeful torchlight.
Finally, when we come out of the dark tunnel, we embrace the light. We dismantle the mask of fearful and dress the shield of relaxing attitude and wear smile.
This tunnel journey do teach us many things. It makes us internally strong and teaches us about patience and courageousness.
What will you carry along with you: A negative memory (darkness and stumbles) or a positive one (learning experiences) from this tunnel journey?
You said right, obviously a positive ones and will make sure that we do not repeat the mistakes which we did.
What will happen if we constantly carry those weirdo negatives and indulge ourselves in scary and spine-chilling thoughts?
I have seen many people across my circle, who keep talking about their failures, past negative experiences, illnesses etc. and once you listen to these people, you start feeling a negative vibes in the positive atmosphere like fishy smell in the garden of roses.
Its like carrying burdens on your own shoulders.
Result: They get trapped in the negative web and overthrow their own life. And their family’s life.
We must learn from our past but we should never carry them on our shoulders all the time. Covert those time into learning lessons and change your day, your life.
“Forgetting bad time leads to good and beautiful life.”
Keep Smiling… 🙂