When we born and entered in this awe-inspiring world, we had Smiles, we were too Energetic. Not just energetic, I would use, we were energetically energized kid with No Egos, with nil Bitterness and had zero bad attitudes.
Life was beautiful. We were out of the world, cared less about tomorrow and loved our parents and spread happiness in lives of our lovely family. Lived in the very moment.
We grew, got to know about parents and siblings much better. Made friends. Got to know our society. Went to school then entered college. Had life partners.
Slowly and Calmly, we nurtured Egos, injected Negativity, Cultivated Hatred.
Ladies and Gentlemen, welcome to the world of ‘Matured People – The Egoistic People’.
In the midst of these life transitions, people say, human becomes more Mature and Intelligent. I simply do not understand the real meaning of ‘Mature‘. The real meaning of ‘Intelligent‘.
My dear friends, I truly don’t understand the most sensitive word ‘Relationship‘.
How a Matured person can actually be so Egoistic, Hatred, Less bothered about his or her relations, Criticize bluntly (My Favorite), Jealous and Disrespecting?
Nevertheless, at the end of the day we feel proud of these ill matureness no matter we had tough time with our lovely and talented colleagues and had a fight with our family members or scolded our kids.
We convert Relation-ships into Sinking-ships.
There is wall of separation between oneself and others. This is Wall of Ego.
Destroy this Wall.
We must Respect our Relationships, our Colleagues, our Society. If not, one day we will be buried for sure under the loneliness. Will get squeezed and wrinkled under the blanket of darkness just like a drying and shrinking flower in the sultry sun.
“Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty.”
Value the Relationships. Bury the Egos. Respect People we meet. Apologize. Use Thank You and Please often. And most importantly Smile.
Keep Smiling… 🙂
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Yesterday I went to see a hindi film ‘Jab Tak Hai Jaan’ led by flamboyant superstar Shah Rukh Khan. Its romantic movie directed by evergreen legend late Yash Chopra who gave Indian cinema one of the greatest romantic movies.
The reason of discussing the movie here on this page is, there was a scene in which actor Anushka Sharma, playing a documentary film maker interviews Shah Rukh Khan donning the role of an Indian army officer named Major Samar. Samar was about to diffuse 98th bomb and never wore protection jacket in his entire army career.
She asks, “Why you don’t wear protection jacket before diffusing the bomb. “
He takes a pause and replies,
“Life is more dangerous than a Bomb.”
He adds, “Bomb can kill you just once but Life kills you at every moment in your life span. Life is full of Treachery, Rejections, Betrayal and Fake which kills us at every interval. These are no lesser than bombs and if we can handle such situations then why to worry from such bombs.”
This dialog made me think, penetrated into my heart and stamped in my mind. So true, so profound.
Life teaches us. It teaches us at every moment.
“A hot metal takes shape only when it is beaten numerous times.”
Above line goes same with the Life. It’s up to us how we take such hits. I believe two things can take place.
Either we get crumbled and give in or we stand, face it and learn invaluable lessons from it.
It depends on us how we handle such situations, how much we learn and make our lives precious. Makes us mature as we grow.
It makes us stronger and mentally tough. We must learn all the lessons of our lives so that we can minimize the mistakes and make our lives more Inspirational and Beautiful. We must fight and most importantly, have patience.
In addition to this, we should also learn from other’s mistakes as well.
“The person is Smart who learns from his or her own mistake but s/he is Wiser when learns from others mistakes.”
We must always be positive and should never get distracted from obstacles and must not ever get disheartened from redundant criticisms. Filter out all the negative impacts and convert it into positive ones.
Let the positive rays penetrate into your soul, your veins and your mind.
Be positive and keep on rejuvenating yourselves every day. Inject the confidence and stand firm in front of such barriers. Plan and cross them.
Life is not miserable but it is one of the beautiful and priceless gift and we must make it memorable.
Keep Smiling… 🙂