Keep Tongue and Words Sweet

“Think twice before you speak, because your words and influence will plant the seed of either success or failure in the mind of another.”

– Napolean Hill

I have heard that words are the most powerful alarming weapon in the world. And the most dangerous is how you use them and the way you talk.

wordsSometimes when we use piercing words politely, it touch the hearts. And sometimes when we use soft words but in harsh language it jabs. Literally it cuts the heart into two pieces.

Let me tell you one sweet story.

There was once a wise sage who wandered the countryside. One day, as he passed near a village, he was approached by a woman who told him of a sick child. She beseeched him to help this child.

So the sage came to the village and a crowd gathered around him, for such a man was a rare sight. One woman brought the sick child to him and he said a prayer over her.

Do you really think your prayer will help her, when medicines has failed?” yelled a man from the crowd.

You know nothing of such things! You are a stupid fool!” said the sage to the man.

The man became very angry with these words and his face grew hot and red. He was about to say something, or perhaps strike out, when the sage walked over to him and said: “If one word has such power as to make you so angry and hot, may not another have the power to heal?

Kind-WordsAnd thus, the sage healed two people that day.

Moral of the Story is clear. Words make the difference and especially how wisely and politely you use them.

“Better than a thousand hollow words, is one word that brings peace.”

Buddha

Most of the time, unintentionally and unknowingly we use stupid words which jabs the listener and hurts their feelings. So we should always use words wisely and most importantly politely.

words-quotes-wordsWhen you are in anger or not in good mood, better do not utter a single word if you really give importance to your relationships.

Keep your tongue and words sweet.

Keep Smiling.. 🙂

Story Credit: Unknown

Smile has Greatest Wavelength

Smile

A Smiling face reflects Happiness, Energy, and Purity of a person. It not only refreshes the people across the one Smiling, but also exhilarates the atmosphere.

The wavelength of Smile is highest just like color Red. It can be seen from miles.

The impact of Smile is deepest like a Nuclear Bomb, it is extensive.

A beautiful Smile penetrates inside the veins of other person, travels across the nervous system and directly hits the brain which gets stimulated and renovates the mood. Rejuvenate the entire system. Enlightens the face.

One day I wasn’t feeling good so had to visit doctor. I took a prior appointment and reached at scheduled time. Receptionist looked me with her frown eyes like I have just murdered someone and trying to escape from prison.

I greeted her with a Smile.

She looked at me with her eyes angling by 45 degrees and suspiciously replied pointing towards the couch, “Sit down there, you are in queue.” Again it seemed like I just robbed someone and trying to negotiate my penalty.

I sat down on the couch. My eyes scanned the room. It was pin drop silence. Patients were waiting patiently.

Not a single person was talking neither smiling. No whispering sound. Nothing. Pure pin drop silence.

It’s like I have come to attend a cremation. I wanted to get in as soon as possible. I could feel Negative vibrations in that lifeless room.

Suddenly, I heard a toddler’s giggling sound from behind.

A small cute kid came with her mother. She sat and got settled herself. Kid was started clapping and laughing. Everyone couldn’t resist themselves and started smiling to kid.

Within a couple of minutes, the room got Life. It was like, when first raindrops fall in arid barren land.

Everyone (including receptionist) started talking and smiling. Room started breathing. And all credit goes to kid and his Smile of Fortune.

“A smile is a curve that sets everything straight. “

– Phyllis Diller

This is I call spontaneous impact. And none other than Smile has such characteristics.

“Let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love.”

Mother Teresa

Keep Smiling… 🙂

Thanks,

Aviral

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Destroy the Wall of Ego

 

When we born and entered in this awe-inspiring world, we had Smiles, we were too Energetic. Not just energetic, I would use, we were energetically energized kid with No Egos, with nil Bitterness and had zero bad attitudes.

Life was beautiful. We were out of the world, cared less about tomorrow and loved our parents and spread happiness in lives of our lovely family. Lived in the very moment.

We grew, got to know about parents and siblings much better. Made friends. Got to know our society. Went to school then entered college. Had life partners.

Slowly and Calmly, we nurtured Egos, injected Negativity, Cultivated Hatred.

Ladies and Gentlemen, welcome to the world of ‘Matured People – The Egoistic People’.

In the midst of these life transitions, people say, human becomes more Mature and Intelligent. I simply do not understand the real meaning of ‘Mature‘. The real meaning of ‘Intelligent‘.

My dear friends, I truly don’t understand the most sensitive word ‘Relationship‘.

How a Matured person can actually be so Egoistic, Hatred, Less bothered about his or her relations, Criticize bluntly (My Favorite), Jealous and Disrespecting?

Nevertheless, at the end of the day we feel proud of these ill matureness no matter we had tough time with our lovely and talented colleagues and had a fight with our family members or scolded our kids.

We convert Relation-ships into Sinking-ships.

There is wall of separation between oneself and others. This is Wall of Ego.

Destroy this Wall.

We must Respect our Relationships, our Colleagues, our Society. If not, one day we will be buried for sure under the loneliness. Will get squeezed and wrinkled under the blanket of darkness just like a drying and shrinking flower in the sultry sun.

“Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty.”

Mother Teresa

Value the Relationships. Bury the Egos. Respect People we meet. Apologize. Use Thank You and Please often. And most importantly Smile.

Keep Smiling… 🙂

Thanks,

Aviral