25 Life Lessons Learned by Me

life lessons

  1. Relationships matter the most, so preserve them.
  2. Don’t speak to any when you are in anger.
  3. Think Twice. Thrice. Hundred times before criticizing anyone.
  4. Time has the power to heal anything.
  5. Always be Polite. Calm. Maintain your vibrations of your mind.
  6. Always try to control your Heart and Mind rhythms. If can’t be controlled, can be dangerous for you.
  7. Love from your heart but not from your mind. Think from your mind not from your heart. Most of the time, we mix them.
  8. Live in present moment even in pressurized state of mind.
  9. The best way to being motivated is – Motivate others.
  10. Critics are wonderful creatures. Learn from them.
  11. Take Risks. I believe, take more risks when you feel luck is on your side.
  12. Smile is a wonderful gift. Let it spread like a virus.
  13. Feeling a bit low? Listen to motivational music. It will rejuvenate you.
  14. Believe in God. When feeling tensed, pass it on to God. They are always there for you.
  15. Laugh loud with friends and behave childish with your loved ones.
  16. Never argue with any one. It’s better to lose arguments most of the time.
  17. Never discuss anyone’s: Religion, Relationships and Diseases
  18. Always be positive and behave positively.
  19. Don’t judge people by their first impressions.
  20. Never regret.
  21. Be a Day dreamer.
  22. Exercise daily. It rejuvenate your confidence as well as body.
  23. Never underestimate yourself as you are the beautiful gift to someone.
  24. Always give more and expect nothing.
  25. Always use words: Please, Thank you and Sorry.

Keep Smiling… 🙂

Thanks,

Aviral

Destroy the Wall of Ego

 

When we born and entered in this awe-inspiring world, we had Smiles, we were too Energetic. Not just energetic, I would use, we were energetically energized kid with No Egos, with nil Bitterness and had zero bad attitudes.

Life was beautiful. We were out of the world, cared less about tomorrow and loved our parents and spread happiness in lives of our lovely family. Lived in the very moment.

We grew, got to know about parents and siblings much better. Made friends. Got to know our society. Went to school then entered college. Had life partners.

Slowly and Calmly, we nurtured Egos, injected Negativity, Cultivated Hatred.

Ladies and Gentlemen, welcome to the world of ‘Matured People – The Egoistic People’.

In the midst of these life transitions, people say, human becomes more Mature and Intelligent. I simply do not understand the real meaning of ‘Mature‘. The real meaning of ‘Intelligent‘.

My dear friends, I truly don’t understand the most sensitive word ‘Relationship‘.

How a Matured person can actually be so Egoistic, Hatred, Less bothered about his or her relations, Criticize bluntly (My Favorite), Jealous and Disrespecting?

Nevertheless, at the end of the day we feel proud of these ill matureness no matter we had tough time with our lovely and talented colleagues and had a fight with our family members or scolded our kids.

We convert Relation-ships into Sinking-ships.

There is wall of separation between oneself and others. This is Wall of Ego.

Destroy this Wall.

We must Respect our Relationships, our Colleagues, our Society. If not, one day we will be buried for sure under the loneliness. Will get squeezed and wrinkled under the blanket of darkness just like a drying and shrinking flower in the sultry sun.

“Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty.”

Mother Teresa

Value the Relationships. Bury the Egos. Respect People we meet. Apologize. Use Thank You and Please often. And most importantly Smile.

Keep Smiling… 🙂

Thanks,

Aviral