Life isnt a straight line

Life gives you a lot. It gives you million reasons to smile. It makes you laugh, sigh, angry and sometimes, makes you cry. It teaches you at every bit of minute.

Sometimes it gives you a punch on your face and stupefies you and in next moments it life teachesmedicates you.

Every day we learn something. Life has a meaning, which provides something to us, something relevant which directly affects us and our society.

Here, the main question isn’t what life teaches us, but the main question is what we learn from life. How we make it large and influencing.

life graph

Above figures are life graphs as they reflect the pattern of life.

Graph at your left resembles stock market chart which has lots of ups and downs. As you can see there are 7 days in a week on the X-axis and these days are never same emotionally nor physically.

Monday you may be suffering from “Monday-Phobia” after having an enjoyable and pleasant weekend. Tuesday you may get indulged in the work and then you start flowing with the flow till Friday. The sixth day brings smiles and happiness on your faces. Weekends are always great fun, aren’t they?

Seven days are not same and it should not be same. It indicates there are lots of happenings in our life no matter a positive one or a negative.

Positive one gives confidence, internal satisfaction and happiness. While negative ones give us a learning experience. We must not get demoralized from these negative kicks. I don’t call them failures. Failures are learning lessons of life.

life

When you do not understand what exactly you want to do in your life, when you have no ideas about your goals and you have no sketch plan to achieve them or you simply are confused with your life then you see your life like a straight line graph.

A life without a goal is like a necklace without a diamond. A plain life starts and it injects pain, leave us frustrated. Life becomes lifeless just like stagnant water in a pond.

If your life is moving ahead just like a straight line, then my dear friend you are moving in the wrong direction and will surely land in trouble and cursing your luck.

“Big ships always sail against the wind and tides in the unpredictable oceans while boats floats in the lakes.

I still remember incredible words from Steve Jobs, “Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle.

Yesterday, someone told me, “Aviral why you want to start a business? You are doing well enough and the better part is you are living your life without tensions. Starting a business is full of tensions, headaches and it has many challenges to crack.”

Is life without a challenge a life? I don’t think so, do you?

Don’t get settled. A life without challenges will leave you paralyzed. Keep looking what you love to do and start it once you find it passionate.

Don’t waste time after thinking. Plan it. Jot down the points, take necessary actions and make it happen. We are not here to talk about other’s successes.

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than
by the ones you did do.  So throw off the bowlines.  Sail away from the safe harbor.  Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” 

– Mark Twain

Keep Smiling… 🙂

Thanks,

Aviral

 

Destroy the Wall of Ego

 

When we born and entered in this awe-inspiring world, we had Smiles, we were too Energetic. Not just energetic, I would use, we were energetically energized kid with No Egos, with nil Bitterness and had zero bad attitudes.

Life was beautiful. We were out of the world, cared less about tomorrow and loved our parents and spread happiness in lives of our lovely family. Lived in the very moment.

We grew, got to know about parents and siblings much better. Made friends. Got to know our society. Went to school then entered college. Had life partners.

Slowly and Calmly, we nurtured Egos, injected Negativity, Cultivated Hatred.

Ladies and Gentlemen, welcome to the world of ‘Matured People – The Egoistic People’.

In the midst of these life transitions, people say, human becomes more Mature and Intelligent. I simply do not understand the real meaning of ‘Mature‘. The real meaning of ‘Intelligent‘.

My dear friends, I truly don’t understand the most sensitive word ‘Relationship‘.

How a Matured person can actually be so Egoistic, Hatred, Less bothered about his or her relations, Criticize bluntly (My Favorite), Jealous and Disrespecting?

Nevertheless, at the end of the day we feel proud of these ill matureness no matter we had tough time with our lovely and talented colleagues and had a fight with our family members or scolded our kids.

We convert Relation-ships into Sinking-ships.

There is wall of separation between oneself and others. This is Wall of Ego.

Destroy this Wall.

We must Respect our Relationships, our Colleagues, our Society. If not, one day we will be buried for sure under the loneliness. Will get squeezed and wrinkled under the blanket of darkness just like a drying and shrinking flower in the sultry sun.

“Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty.”

Mother Teresa

Value the Relationships. Bury the Egos. Respect People we meet. Apologize. Use Thank You and Please often. And most importantly Smile.

Keep Smiling… 🙂

Thanks,

Aviral