Its all in Attitude

I have always believed that Attitude does matter. A bad attitude is like a bad fish in a pond which dirt the whole lake and other fishes as well. A bad attitude not only make your heart dirty but also makes your soul lifeless, your mind useless and your eyes colorless which furthermore leaves you in isolation for rest of your life.

Today, I am pasting 10 Attitude Quotes from greatest leaders. Just do not read them, Inhale them and change your life.

1. “The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes of mind.”

2. “Nothing on Earth can help the man with the Wrong mental attitude.”

3. “Your attitude is like a price tag, it shows how valuable you are.”

4. “Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.”

5. ” A bad attitude is like a flat tire you can’t go anywhere until you change it.”

6. “A positive attitude is contagious. Don’t wait to catch it, be a carrier!”

7. “Two things define you. Your patience when you have nothing and your attitude when you have everything.”

8. “The problem is not the problem. The problem is your attitude about the problem.”

9. “The only difference between a good and a bad day is your attitude.”

10. “Our attitude towards life determines life’s attitude towards us.”

Expectation thrills, but ills

Today, I am 31 years old with very small career and professional life and three decades of personal life, I can proudly say that I have learned and still learning a lot. Most of the learning lessons came in the last five years of span. I feel lucky.

When we talk about lessons of life, we cannot exclude ‘Expectations’. Because the word Expect directly jabs at our heart, mind and soul.

Expectations play a major role in building ourselves if taken on a positive note. It makes us internally stronger.

Just imagine, you are sitting with smiling face in an air-conditioned auditorium listening to an inspiring speech from one of the greatest inspirations on this planet. As time passes by, his euphonious speech webs around your heart, soothes you and make your soul inspired. You are enjoying every bit of seconds. You are expecting more inspiring and heartwarming words which is going to change your life forever.

Suddenly, from nowhere, another person takes the microphone and starts criticising heavily. Starts throwing tantrums and harsh words. Unexpectedly words musical to your ears converted into poignant.

Thorns took shape of roses. Negativity takes place of positivity in a trice. It’s like someone splashed the water on your face while you were indulged in beautiful dreams.

Expectations are like slow sweet poison which gives an instant reaction.

It’s like slowly you build a castle of trust and once it’s built suddenly your loved one ran over and thrashed it. Perplexedly your jaws dropped and leave you dumbfounded.

I do not say that we should never expect from our loved ones. Obviously we must, but just to be on safer side, it has to be in limit so even if your expectations thrashed, it shouldn’t hurt you.

The less you expect, lesser you get hurt. I know just reading it seems simple but let me tell you my dear friend, in real life it is not as simple as it seems.

It needs patience. A strong heart. A true synchronisation between Heart, Mind and importantly Eyes.

You must be guessing why eyes? Well, when you got hurt in your past, dint you cry or haven’t those moments reflected in your eyes?

Yes it hurts but if we think this from a positive angle then these saddened moments makes us strong and teach us.

It teaches us how to react in such overwrought situations. It teaches us how to handle our state of mind. It teaches us how not to get carried away from these emotional outbursts.

Yes these moments teach us a lot the way it taught me. And today proudly I can say, ‘I am much stronger.’

Never expect or expect least from your friends, loved ones and colleagues. Do for them, help them and be a helping hand in their lives but don’t expect anything in return. Do for them and forget.

Result?

You will be the happiest person on this earth.

Keep Smiling and Expect Less. 🙂

Your Positivity is your best vaccination

One day I got a call from one of my friend. As soon as I hit the green button of my phone, I greeted her enthusiastically with wearing smile on my lips, “Hey, how are you? You made my day with your call this beautiful morning. So what’s going at your end?”

Guess what!

A dull monotonous low voice came from my receiver like a flabby tortoise with half closed eyes walking on the river bank, “Hi! I am fine, thank you. You say how’s going?”

Now by listening such a monotonous and soporific voice, we can easily make out something is not right with that person.

When such negative words fall on our ear drums then directly or indirectly the echo travels to our mind. Either we feel such vibrations on our heart and mind or we suppress these negative vibes and send our strong positive vibrations back to the person, which rejuvenate him or her.

Let’s imagine, you are on a holiday on an ecstatic beach and walking on the whitish sand under the bluish sky. Sun is smiling and cold breeze is welcoming you. You are enjoying every bit of moment.

Suddenly you come across a rocky cave and plan to enter in it. As you enter in a dark scary cave you find yourselves in scary gloominess murk.

How will you react? You see nothing. Everything is blackened out.

In a trice, a positive atmosphere changed to negative one. (It depends how you take it.)

Here, we have two options with us. Either we lit something to see and enjoy the beauty of cave or we simply run away considering it as a frightening dark den.

Which would you prefer? I would prefer the initial one.

When we hear a negative voice from someone, it tries to enter into our brain and hypnotises it. Our mind start visualising these negative vibrations and creates an imaginary picture. Finally this affects our soul and heart later affects our immune system.

Result is obvious. We become unmotivated and negative thoughts start shaping up in our mind.

Your Smile drops. Your energy curve drops. Your confidence drops.

We must not allow the negative vibrations to enter in our soul and make us unmotivated. Our positive vibrations must be stronger so that it suppress the negative ones. And your positivity will directly motivate the others and start injecting into their system.

Your positive vibrations will act as a vaccinator. Positivity smash the negativity out of the system like germs get smashed by the medicines.

And in this case, positive forces win the battle.

Every day we come across many negative people. We have two options. Either simply ignore these negative anti social elements OR talk to them, find out what make them upset, give a positive solution, kill their negativity, motivate and rejuvenate their inner soul with your strong positive pulses.

Your positive healing will work wonders for them and make their life.

Be happy and make your environment happier, germ free. Think Positive, Stay Positive.

Keep Smiling… 🙂

10 Spiritual Tonics

Stop glancing from negative windows

Have you ever seen a house without a window?

May be yes…

If I ask you to move in such windowless house, will you?

Obviously you will never prefer a house or a room without a window. Who will prefer?

Just imagine, you selected a room which has two windows and you moved in.

As you open one of the window, you feel chilled breeze on your beautiful face like someone has welcoming you with petals and its fragrance is spreading across the atmosphere. You take a deep breath and enjoy every moment of it.

Sun is rising behind the mountains and gradually its rays are spreading across the globe like a smile of a baby. Birds are chirping and welcoming the sun and its fragrance, trees are dancing on the breeze’s tunes, leaves and petals are dipped in the morning dew. Each and every particle on earth seems alluring and hypnotic and guess what?

Your soul gets hypnotized by such captivating scenic view. Won’t such a scene be soothing to your eyes?

Wow! Not only eyes, it will be soothing to our heart as well.

As you move to the other window, you see haunting darkness, terrified night which makes you timorous. You hear the scream which extract your soul out of your body.

Which window you prefer to open?

Similarly, when we come across negative circumstances through our window of soul i.e. eyes, we start absorbing them. Negativity starts cropping up in our heart and soul; leaves us deactivated. Such negative forces hypnotize our mind which maps negativity.

Result is Crystal clear.

Anger takes control on our mind. Lips start reacting to the anger. Words coming out of our lips are piercingly sharp like a sword.

Why to have a glance from such negative windows?

We always be open to those people who motivate and inspires others. Follow those who are center of happiness. Their presence makes our society happy and spread positivity across the proximity.

We must visit places which soothes our heart and soul. See yourself sitting in the garden of roses, birds singing the nature’s song, feel the twilight breeze and let your mind paint the rainbow colors on your soul.

Open the windows of your soul and rejuvenate yourself rather than isolating yourself from rest of the world.

Life is beautiful and becomes more ecstatic when we spend time with enthusiastic, energetic and thrilled people. Open the window of Happiness.

Keep Smiling.. 🙂

Thanks,

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